Part 3 of 3. Schema Loops on Earning Safety
These last 7 share one move: earning safety from the outside, through approval, accommodation, or control.
Subjugation, self-sacrifice, approval-seeking, negativity, emotional inhibition, unrelenting standards, punitiveness.
Each one has a cost: resentment under the giving, burnout under the standards, distance under the control.
This completes all 18 across the three parts. Old belief, trigger, protective response, an impact that feels like proof.
Inquiry:
What did this once protect?
Wht is it recreating now?
What could I try differently?
Subjugation, self-sacrifice, approval-seeking, negativity, emotional inhibition, unrelenting standards, punitiveness.
Each one has a cost: resentment under the giving, burnout under the standards, distance under the control.
This completes all 18 across the three parts. Old belief, trigger, protective response, an impact that feels like proof.
Inquiry:
What did this once protect?
Wht is it recreating now?
What could I try differently?
by Master
• 1 month ago
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