Schemas: What if healing is not a state we reach, but a question we keep living?
When a schema pulls us out of the room, there is a part that can stay. Schema therapy calls it the Healthy Adult, and most of us have felt it in at least some glimpses. Healing is finding it on purpose. Not how do I fix myself, but can I stay a little longer than last time.
It may not be the end of being triggered. The old pull still comes. What changes is the return: we notice sooner, and we choose to stay. Not a finish line, just a shorter way back, again and again.
What did this once protect?
What is the more that calls me now?
Who am I when I rest as me, unreduced?
It may not be the end of being triggered. The old pull still comes. What changes is the return: we notice sooner, and we choose to stay. Not a finish line, just a shorter way back, again and again.
What did this once protect?
What is the more that calls me now?
Who am I when I rest as me, unreduced?
by Master
• 4 weeks ago
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